Anyone can say the "F" word really loud in class, refuse to go to the principle's office, then fart really loud and be popular. Anyone can pretend that they're "too cool" to do something and be popular. Anyone can follow a group around and be popular. Not everybody can be smartAfroLH said:eurddrue said:Anybody can be popular, it's hard to be a nerd.
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That is a very skewed view. Believe me, when you have a low self-esteem due to bullying, it is very hard to be social.
It took me a good 3 years to get a higher self-esteem. Even now, I still suffer. I cannot approach people unless I am with someone I trust.
And I went to public school.
So no, it isnt hard to be a "nerd" It depends on the person. Some people have social issues that keep them from making friends,
eurddrue said:Anyone can say the "F" word really loud in class, refuse to go to the principle's office, then fart really loud and be popular. Anyone can pretend that they're "too cool" to do something and be popular. Anyone can follow a group around and be popular. Not everybody can be smartAfroLH said:eurddrue said:Anybody can be popular, it's hard to be a nerd.
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That is a very skewed view. Believe me, when you have a low self-esteem due to bullying, it is very hard to be social.
It took me a good 3 years to get a higher self-esteem. Even now, I still suffer. I cannot approach people unless I am with someone I trust.
And I went to public school.
So no, it isnt hard to be a "nerd" It depends on the person. Some people have social issues that keep them from making friends,
+1eurddrue said:Anyone can say the "F" word really loud in class, refuse to go to the principle's office, then fart really loud and be popular. Anyone can pretend that they're "too cool" to do something and be popular. Anyone can follow a group around and be popular. Not everybody can be smartAfroLH said:eurddrue said:Anybody can be popular, it's hard to be a nerd.
...
That is a very skewed view. Believe me, when you have a low self-esteem due to bullying, it is very hard to be social.
It took me a good 3 years to get a higher self-esteem. Even now, I still suffer. I cannot approach people unless I am with someone I trust.
And I went to public school.
So no, it isnt hard to be a "nerd" It depends on the person. Some people have social issues that keep them from making friends,
eurddrue said:Anyone can say the "F" word really loud in class, refuse to go to the principle's office, then fart really loud and be popular. Anyone can pretend that they're "too cool" to do something and be popular. Anyone can follow a group around and be popular. Not everybody can be smartAfroLH said:eurddrue said:Anybody can be popular, it's hard to be a nerd.
...
That is a very skewed view. Believe me, when you have a low self-esteem due to bullying, it is very hard to be social.
It took me a good 3 years to get a higher self-esteem. Even now, I still suffer. I cannot approach people unless I am with someone I trust.
And I went to public school.
So no, it isnt hard to be a "nerd" It depends on the person. Some people have social issues that keep them from making friends,
people smell weakness and go after insecurities. There are certain things for what people will pick on you, but if you show signs of conviction rather than insecurity, it will die down. If you are secure in yourself, then there's not much others can do to bring you down.Kickback said:eurddrue said:Anyone can say the "F" word really loud in class, refuse to go to the principle's office, then fart really loud and be popular. Anyone can pretend that they're "too cool" to do something and be popular. Anyone can follow a group around and be popular. Not everybody can be smartAfroLH said:eurddrue said:Anybody can be popular, it's hard to be a nerd.
...
That is a very skewed view. Believe me, when you have a low self-esteem due to bullying, it is very hard to be social.
It took me a good 3 years to get a higher self-esteem. Even now, I still suffer. I cannot approach people unless I am with someone I trust.
And I went to public school.
So no, it isnt hard to be a "nerd" It depends on the person. Some people have social issues that keep them from making friends,
Also people will laugh at and pick on nerds.
It can be quite difficult to truly be into something when it's so easy for people to use it against you.