Keep your friends close, and your internet friends closer. I spent three years on benheck, and I don't miss the community.
I've spent just a couple months here, and I'm closer to you all more than any one else over there, regardless of shared userbase, I've made more memories here than there. I picked Palmer and Drue and with them, for I learned two important principals early on:
The one who is just friends with everyone is often the loneliest.
You can't rely on everyone as much as you can on your best friends.
This goes hand in hand with a huge community of anon's, a group of a few people(different or not) solve problems much better than a crowd.
That's the literal difference between MR and BH:
MR: "Hey guys, can any of you help me with this?"
BH: "Is there anyone out there generous enough to point me in the right direction?"
After all, that's also what benefits our administration the most, and what makes our rules work. We see your thread, what it's about, and how we can deal with potential problems, and take appropriate action based on a collaborative opinionated effort.
Once/If we become large enough to where our userbase grows exponentially, the staff is doomed to become semi-robotic, making a clear set of rules, and taking action based on those instead of the actual problem.
So, at this point, it's not "Thank goodness we are small," it's "HOLY FREAKING GOD BEING SMALL ROCKS SO HARD AND IS AWESOMEZ!
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!!!!1111010101zzzz"
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