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You can fit a trimmed board in there without RCPing and without it sticking out the top. The Toasty's case is smaller than that in every dimension.
Ground: It's everywhere. Scratch some up or use a small piece of grounding strip.
12v/7.4v: The 12v pin on the 7805
3.3v: I don't quite remember. Follow a trace to a cap or scratch up some of a 3.3v trace. Not sure if it makes a difference, but it's probably best to solder it on right after the power switch.